These apps are built on where you are: Tinder's own page says you have to grant access to your device's location to use it, and Bumble's says your phone's GPS decides your position. So the real choice is between hiding your distance where the vendor documents a setting for it and not using the app. This page carries the phone-settings switch for all four, and the in-app setting Grindr, Bumble and Hinge each document.
Do they get told?A notification to a match is not documented by any of the four for any of these switches. What is documented is what other people still see: Grindr says that with Show My Distance off your profile is still visible to other people in your Grid, sorted by your distance from them, so an approximate distance may be inferred. Bumble says that with incognito mode on, only people you've liked will see you.
Do they get told?A notice to a match is not documented on Tinder's pages for this switch, or on Apple's. What Tinder documents is its own side: you need to grant access to your device's location to use Tinder, and if you disable all location sharing it cannot show you recommendations.
Who can still see you
Off
Tinder on this iPhone
Apple's Never option prevents access to Location Services information, so Tinder stops getting a position from this phone.
Still on
Every other app, and iOS itself
Location Services stays on for the phone, and Bumble, Hinge, Grindr and every other app keep their own permission.
Still visible
Tinder and your carrier
Tinder says it then cannot show you recommendations, and cell towers and your IP address still place your phone roughly.
Apple prints a longer route to the same switch: Settings, then Privacy & Security, then Location Services, then Tinder.
Do they get told?A notice to anyone is not documented on Bumble's page for this switch, or on Apple's. What Bumble documents is where its position comes from: your phone's GPS location automatically determines your location on Bumble, and you should check that location access is enabled for the app in your device settings.
Who can still see you
Off
Bumble on this iPhone
Apple's Never option prevents access to Location Services information, so Bumble stops getting a position from this phone.
Still on
Every other app, and iOS itself
Location Services stays on for the phone, and the city you typed into your Bumble profile stays on your profile.
Still visible
Bumble and your carrier
Bumble keeps the position it already had, and cell towers and your IP address still place your phone roughly.
Bumble's help centre prints no device path of its own for location, so the route above is Apple's.
Do they get told?Bumble does not document a notification to anyone when incognito mode goes on. It describes the mode as hiding your location, and documents what other members see: only people you've liked will see you while it's on, and if you don't send someone a like, you won't appear to them at all.
Who can still see you
Off
Members you have not liked
Bumble says you won't appear to them at all, and describes the mode as hiding your location.
Still on
People you have liked, and the app
Bumble says only people you've liked will see you, and the app's location permission on this phone does not change.
Still visible
Bumble and the network
Bumble still reads your position from your phone's GPS, and your carrier and IP address still place your phone roughly.
Bumble's page says incognito mode is part of Bumble Premium and Premium+ subscriptions.
Do they get told?Hinge does not document a notification to anyone. It documents what your profile shows: Hinge does not automatically update your location, so the neighborhood you set stays on your profile, and Hinge says it will never show your exact address.
Who can still see you
Off
Hinge on this iPhone
Apple's Never option prevents access to Location Services information, so tapping the Compass Icon can no longer move your pin.
Still on
The location on your profile
Hinge does not update your location on its own, so the neighborhood already set on your profile stays there until you change it.
Still visible
Hinge and your carrier
Hinge keeps the location data you already shared, and cell towers and your IP address still place your phone roughly.
Hinge's help centre prints no device path for its location permission, so the route above is Apple's.
Do they get told?Hinge does not document a notification to anyone when you change your location. It documents what other daters see: the location you set is the one shown on your profile, Hinge will never show your exact address, and if you prefer to keep your location broader you can select a wider area before saving.
Who can still see you
Off
Your device's current location
Typing a place instead of tapping the Compass Icon means the pin on your profile is the one you chose, not the one your phone reports.
Still on
Hinge's own location permission
This is a profile field, not a permission, so if Hinge has location access on this phone it keeps it.
Still visible
Hinge and the network
Hinge keeps the location data you already shared, and your carrier and IP address still place your phone roughly.
Hinge prints a second route to the same field, from your Photo Icon then the Pencil Icon then Location under My Vitals.
Do they get told?What other people see when Grindr has no location access at all is not documented on Grindr's pages or Apple's. What Grindr documents is the smaller step: with Show My Distance off, your profile is still visible to other people in your Grid, sorted by your distance from them.
Who can still see you
Off
Grindr on this iPhone
Apple's Never option prevents access to Location Services information, so Grindr stops getting a position from this phone.
Still on
Every other app, and iOS itself
Location Services stays on for the phone, and your Grindr profile, photos and chats are untouched by this switch.
Still visible
Grindr and your carrier
Grindr keeps the position it already had, and cell towers and your IP address still place your phone roughly.
Grindr's safety page prints the same route for a smaller step, ending at Precise Location rather than Never.
Do they get told?Grindr does not document a notification to anyone. It documents what other people still see: your profile stays visible to them in your Grid, sorted by your distance from them, so an approximate distance may be inferred.
Who can still see you
Off
Your distance on other people's grids
Grindr says your distance from other people is no longer measured and displayed.
Still on
Your profile in the Grid
Grindr says your profile is still visible to other people, sorted by your distance from them, and the app keeps its location permission.
Still visible
Grindr and the network
Grindr says it still collects your position to within about 100 metres, and your carrier and IP address still place your phone roughly.
Grindr says the toggle is yellow when the setting is on and grey when it is off.
Do they get told?A notice to a match is not documented on Tinder's pages for this switch, or on Google's. What Tinder documents is its own side: you need to grant access to your device's location to use Tinder, and if you disable all location sharing it cannot show you recommendations.
Who can still see you
Off
Tinder on this phone
Google's Don't allow option means the app cannot use your location, even when you're using the app.
Still on
Every other app, and Android itself
The phone's own location setting stays on, and Bumble, Hinge, Grindr and every other app keep their own permission.
Still visible
Tinder and your carrier
Tinder says it then cannot show you recommendations, and cell towers and your IP address still place your phone roughly.
Google prints a second route to the same screen: Settings, then Location, then App location permissions, then Tinder.
Do they get told?A notice to anyone is not documented on Bumble's page for this switch, or on Google's. What Bumble documents is where its position comes from: your phone's GPS location automatically determines your location on Bumble, and you should check that location access is enabled for the app in your device settings.
Who can still see you
Off
Bumble on this phone
Google's Don't allow option means the app cannot use your location, even when you're using the app.
Still on
Every other app, and Android itself
The phone's own location setting stays on, and the city you typed into your Bumble profile stays on your profile.
Still visible
Bumble and your carrier
Bumble keeps the position it already had, and cell towers and your IP address still place your phone roughly.
Bumble's help centre prints no device path of its own for location, so the route above is Google's.
Do they get told?Bumble does not document a notification to anyone when incognito mode goes on. It describes the mode as hiding your location, and documents what other members see: only people you've liked will see you while it's on, and if you don't send someone a like, you won't appear to them at all.
Who can still see you
Off
Members you have not liked
Bumble says you won't appear to them at all, and describes the mode as hiding your location.
Still on
People you have liked, and the app
Bumble says only people you've liked will see you, and the app's location permission on this phone does not change.
Still visible
Bumble and the network
Bumble still reads your position from your phone's GPS, and your carrier and IP address still place your phone roughly.
Bumble's page says incognito mode is part of Bumble Premium and Premium+ subscriptions.
Do they get told?Hinge does not document a notification to anyone. It documents what your profile shows: Hinge does not automatically update your location, so the neighborhood you set stays on your profile, and Hinge says it will never show your exact address.
Who can still see you
Off
Hinge on this phone
Google's Don't allow option means the app cannot use your location, even when you're using the app.
Still on
The location on your profile
Hinge does not update your location on its own, so the neighborhood already set on your profile stays there until you change it.
Still visible
Hinge and your carrier
Hinge keeps the location data you already shared, and cell towers and your IP address still place your phone roughly.
Hinge's help centre prints no device path for its location permission, so the route above is Google's.
Do they get told?Hinge does not document a notification to anyone when you change your location. It documents what other daters see: the location you set is the one shown on your profile, Hinge will never show your exact address, and if you prefer to keep your location broader you can select a wider area before saving.
Who can still see you
Off
Your device's current location
Typing a place instead of tapping the Compass Icon means the pin on your profile is the one you chose, not the one your phone reports.
Still on
Hinge's own location permission
This is a profile field, not a permission, so if Hinge has location access on this phone it keeps it.
Still visible
Hinge and the network
Hinge keeps the location data you already shared, and your carrier and IP address still place your phone roughly.
Hinge prints a second route to the same field, from your Photo Icon then the Pencil Icon then Location under My Vitals.
Do they get told?What other people see when Grindr has no location access at all is not documented on Grindr's pages or Google's. What Grindr documents is the smaller step: with Show My Distance off, your profile is still visible to other people in your Grid, sorted by your distance from them.
Who can still see you
Off
Grindr on this phone
Google's Don't allow option means the app cannot use your location, even when you're using the app.
Still on
Every other app, and Android itself
The phone's own location setting stays on, and your Grindr profile, photos and chats are untouched by this switch.
Still visible
Grindr and your carrier
Grindr keeps the position it already had, and cell towers and your IP address still place your phone roughly.
Grindr's safety page names the Android step only as turning Use Precise Location off for Grindr, without a full menu route.
Do they get told?Grindr does not document a notification to anyone. It documents what other people still see: your profile stays visible to them in your Grid, sorted by your distance from them, so an approximate distance may be inferred.
Who can still see you
Off
Your distance on other people's grids
Grindr says your distance from other people is no longer measured and displayed.
Still on
Your profile in the Grid
Grindr says your profile is still visible to other people, sorted by your distance from them, and the app keeps its location permission.
Still visible
Grindr and the network
Grindr says it still collects your position to within about 100 metres, and your carrier and IP address still place your phone roughly.
Grindr says the toggle is yellow when the setting is on and grey when it is off.
Location spoofing, fake-GPS apps and mock-location settings are outside this site on purpose. This page describes the settings the app and your phone provide, and what the vendor documents about them.
If someone is tracking you against your will, turning a setting off may not be the safest first step. Read this first.